This page provides a listing of songs with a polyamorous theme. Some of the songs present the polyamory and responsible non-monogamy concepts in a positive light, others in a negative light, others offer no judgment and others imply open marriages/relationships.
Complete Listing
| Song Title | Artist | Links | Lyrics | Description | ||
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 1,2,3 (U, Her, & Me) | Rick James | http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6PHETt6ccEo | ||||
| 3 | Britney Spears | 3 by Britney Spears | 3 by Britney Spears | |||
| 5 Moms and 3 Dads | Tom Hunter | Amazon Sample | Lyrics5 Moms and Three Dads by Tom Hunter | |||
| 40 Boys In 40 Nights | The Donnas | 40 Boys In 40 Nights | 40 Boys In 40 Nights | |||
| Afternoon Delight | Starland Vocal Band | Afternoon Delight | Afternoon Delight | |||
| A Little Happiness | Soundtrack to the musical "Personals" | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kLnE26dzwtQ | ||||
| All My Lovers | Black Tape For a Blue Girl | http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=onRA9kvy8b4 | ||||
| Alternative Girlfriend | Barenaked Ladies | Alternative Girlfriend by The Barenaked Ladies | ||||
| Bad Girlfriend | Theory Of A Deadman | Bad Girlfriend by Theory Of A Deadman | Bad Girlfriend by Theory Of A Deadman | |||
| Bi | Living Colour | Bi by Living Colour | Bi by Living Colour | |||
| Cabana Boy | Sara Evans | |||||
| Cactus Tree | Joni Mitchell | |||||
| Can't Help But Fly (The Poly Song) | Be Steadwell (B. Steady) & Naima Infinity (Climbing PoeTree) | https://soundcloud.com/naimainfinity/cant-help-but-fly-the-poly | ||||
| Cougar | Debbie Gibson | |||||
| Coyote | Joni Mitchell | |||||
| Cuckold | Tripod | Cuckold by Tripod | Cuckold by Tripod | |||
| Culture Shock | Olivia Newton John | |||||
| Cyrus In The Moonlight | Cyndi Lauper | http://www.cyndilauper.com/intro.html Cyndi Lauper | Cyrus In The Moonlight by Cyndi Lauper | |||
| Did You Ever Have To Make Up Your Mind | Lovin Spoonful | |||||
| Different Drum | Michael Nesmith | |||||
| Does He Love You | Reba McEntire and Linda Davis | |||||
| Don't Doubt It | Deidre McCalla | |||||
| Don't Ever Call Your Sweetheart By His Name | Christine Lavin | |||||
| Empires | Lamyas | |||||
| Family | Gaia Consort | Family by Gaia Consort | Used as the theme song in the web series "Family". | |||
| Four Way Stop | Mondo Vita | |||||
| The French Song | Joan Jett and The Blackhearts | http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kl5DeiGys6Y | The French Song by Joan Jett and the Blackhearts | |||
| Fucking Isn't Cheating | Gay For Johnny Depp | |||||
| Girl Crush | Little Big Town | Girl Crush | ||||
| Happy Guy | Devo | |||||
| Hot Girls In Love | Loverboy | Hot Girls In Love | Hot Girls In Love | |||
| I Don't Want To Go On With You Like That | Elton John | Possibly the opposite of a poly song, given that he doesn't want a relationship like that, but explicitly deals with polamory, and in a fairly decent way (he's not mad, it's just not for him). | ||||
| I'll Always Come Back | K.T. Oslin | I'll Always Come Back | I'll Always Come Back | |||
| I Muse Aloud | Jane Siberry | |||||
| It's Up To You | John Denver | |||||
| I U She | Peaches | |||||
| Just Another Lover Tonight | Cheryl Ladd | Just Another Lover Tonight by Cheryl Ladd | Just Another Lover Tonight by Cheryl Ladd | |||
| Just Be Good To Me | The SOS Band | |||||
| L'Amour A 3 | Stereo Total | |||||
| Let Me Go | Cake | |||||
| Let's Invite Them Over | Iris Dement & John Prine | Let's Invite Them Over by Iris Dement & John Prine | Let's Invite Them Over by Iris Dement & John Prine | Often credited to Prine and Dement on poly song lists, this was originally written by Onie Wheeler and later recorded by George Jones and Melba Montgomery before being covered by John and Iris. | ||
| Light Of Some Kind | Ani Difranco | Light Of Some Kind by Ani Difranco | ||||
| Little Darlin' | Joan Baez | |||||
| Love In Stereo | The Monks | |||||
| Love Is Strange | Mickey & Sylvia | Love Is Strange | Love Is Strange | |||
| Man With An Open Heart | King Crimson | |||||
| Mathematics Of Love | George Clinton | |||||
| Monogamy | Mannilown | Monogamy by Mannilown | ||||
| Monogamy | Lynn Rose | Monogamy by Lynn Rose | ||||
| Monogamy Shbedogamy | Baba Yaga | Monogamy Shbedogamy by Baba Yaga | Though credited to Baba Yaga on most poly song lists, it was actually written by Jan Cornall, and was recorded on Baba Yaga's rare album "On The Edge" during her stint as the band's drummer. | |||
| Much More Than This | Chris de Burgh | |||||
| Moonlight Lovin' (Menage a Trois) | Isaac Hayes | |||||
| Move To The Country | Gaia Consort | |||||
| My Boyfriend's Girlfriend | Must Be Tuesday | My Boyfriend's Girlfriend by Must Be Tuesday | My Boyfriend's Girlfriend by Must Be Tuesday | |||
| My Girlfriend's Girlfriend | Type O Negative | My Girlfriend's Girlfriend by Type O Negative | ||||
| My Girl's Got A Girlfriend | Ray Lavender | My Girl's Got A Girlfriend by Ray Lavender | ||||
| My Goodness | John Doe | |||||
| My Love Life | Morrissey | |||||
| No One Is To Blame | Howard Jones | |||||
| No Tomorrow | Lauren Adams | No Tomorrow by Lauren Adams | ||||
| Nothing To Fear | Chris Rea | |||||
| Often As I May | The Great Society | |||||
| Oh My Lover | P.J. Harvey | |||||
| One Love At A Time | Tanya Tucker | One Love At A Time by Tanya Tucker | ||||
| One Month Marathon | Elanor Freidberger | One Month Marathon | ||||
| Open Relationship | Abdominal | Open Relationship by Abdominal | ||||
| Outlaw Women | Hank Williams Jr. | Outlaw Women | Outlaw Women | |||
| Paper Thin Hotel | Leonard Cohen | |||||
| Perils Of Poly | Gaia Consort | Perils of Poly by Gaia Consort | ||||
| Polyamory | David Rovics | Polyamory by David Rovics | Polyamory Song by David Rovics | |||
| Polyamory Mitt Romney | Uncle Duke | Polyamory by Uncle Duke | ||||
| Question Of Monogamy | Keo Nozari | Question Of Monogamy by Keo Nozari | Question Of Monogamy by Keo Nozari | |||
| Queer For Cat | Big Rude Jake | |||||
| Room For You | Betsy Rose | |||||
| Room To Move | John Mayall | |||||
| Save The Last Dance For Me | The Drifters | Save The Last Dance For Me | ||||
| Seeing Other People | Belle and Sebastian | |||||
| Self Esteem | The Offspring | Self Esteem | Self Esteem | Cuckoldry as told from a sissycuck's point-of-view. | ||
| Shame's A Bitter Game | Tiff Randol | Shame's A Bitter Game by Tiff Randol | Shame's A Bitter Game by Tiff Randol | |||
| Side By Side By Side | From the musical "Company" | |||||
| Simultaneous | Chef, South Park | |||||
| Sister Wife | Kathy Mar | |||||
| The Sisters Of Mercy | Leonard Cohen | |||||
| So In Love With Two | Mikaila | So In Love With Two by Mikaila | ||||
| Somebody Else | The Wet Spots | Somebody Else by The Wet Spots | Somebody Else by The Wet Spots | |||
| Substitute | Djonah Laforge feat. So-fia | Sustitute by Djonah Larorge feat. So-fia | ||||
| Surf City | Jan & Dean | Surf City by Jan & Dean | Surf City by Jan & Dean | Also covered by The Go-Gos. | ||
| Surf City | The Go-Gos | Surf City by The Go-Gos | Surf City by The Go-Gos | Cover version of the Jan & Dean song. | ||
| Tea In The Sahara | The Police | |||||
| Three | Veda Hille | |||||
| Three Days | Jane's Addiction | |||||
| Three Hearts | Bob Welch | |||||
| Three Of A Perfect Pair | King Crimson | |||||
| Threeway Rendezvous | The Wet Spots | |||||
| Thinking Of You | A Perfect Circle | Thinking Of You | Thinking Of You | |||
| Torn Between Two Lovers | Mary MacGregor | Torn Between Two Lovers by Mary MacGregor | Torn Between Two Lovers by Mary MacGregor | |||
| Totally Hot | Olivia Newton-John | Totally Hot | Totally Hotl | |||
| Toy Soldier | Britney Spears | Toy Soldier | Toy Soldier | [Truly Outrageous] | [Truly Outrageous] | |
| Tra la la la la Triangle | Patsy Cline | Tra la la la la Triangle | ||||
| Triad | Jefferson Airplane | Triad | Triad | Originally written by David Crosby. | ||
| Tricycle | Jeanette Katt | |||||
| Truly Outrageous | Jem and the Holograms | Truly Outrageous | Truly Outrageous | |||
| Trying To Love Two | William Bell | Trying To Love Two by William Bell | ||||
| Trying To Love Two Women | The Oak Ridge Boys | Trying To Love Two Women by The Oak Ridge Boys | Trying To Love Two Women by The Oak Ridge Boys | |||
| Two For The Price Of One | Abba | |||||
| Two Guys (For Every Girl) | Peaches | Two Guys (For Every Girl) | Two Guys (For Every Girl) | |||
| Two Ladies | Cabaret | |||||
| Two Lovers | Mary Wells | Two Lovers by Mary Wells | ||||
| Two Wuv | Tally Hall | |||||
| Water To My Thirst | Kathy Mar | |||||
| The Weakness In Me | Joan Armatrading | |||||
| When U Were Mine | Prince/Cyndi Lauper | |||||
| We Got Us | The Muppets | We Got Us | ||||
| Who's Cheatin' Who | Charley McClain | Who's Cheatin' Who | Who's Cheatin' Who | |||
| Why Does It Have To Be | Restless Heart | Why Does It Have To Be Wrong Or Right by Restless Heart | Why Does It Have To Be by Restless Heart | |||
| The Willing Cuckold | Tim Kasher | The Willing Cuckold by Tim Kasher | The Willing Cuckold by Tim Kasher | |||
| You and Your Friend | Snake River Conspiracy | |||||
| You Don't Own Me | Leslie Gore | You Don't Own Me | You Don't Own Me | A woman wanting an open relationship. Also sampled by Grace. | ||
| You Don't Own Me | Grace | You Don't Own Me by Grace | You Don't Own Me by Grace | Sample version of the Leslie Gore song You Don't Own Me. | ||
| Younger Men | K.T. Oslin | Younger Men by K.T. Oslin | Younger Men by K.T. Oslin | Relates to hotwife/cuckold marriages, in which a married cougar freely has extramarital sexual relations with younger men with the support and encouragement of her cuckold husband. The cuckolded husband is either the same age as hers or older and he agrees to remain monogamous in this arrangement. | ||
| Your Wife Is Cheating On Us Again | Wayne Kemp | http://www.lpdiscography.com/k/Kemp/kemp_yourwife.htm Your Wife Is Cheating On Us Again by Wayne Kemp] | ||||
| Your Wife's Been Cheating On Us Again | Mike McGuire | http://shenandoahband.com/mikepitchpages/yourwifesbeencheating.html Your Wife's Been Cheating On Us Again by Mike McGuire] | ||||
| You're The Two | The Roches | You're The Two by The Roches | ||||
| In The Middle | dodie | https://itunes.apple.com/gb/album/you-ep/id1255318399 |